Sunnah – Dua 

I came across this beautiful Dua, Muhammad (SAW) taught us, human beings. I try to pray, but not as much as I would like to. Regardless may Allah (SWT) help us all, guide us to Jannah, and make our lives in this world easier for the next. Aameen. 

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Peace and Unity, if Not Equality, in 21st Century

Assalam’alaikum (Peace Be Upon You),

We are sick, tired, and depressed seeing all the fights, abuse, and discrimination that is currently on going. It seems it is giving many people FREE “abuse card” to behave any way they like. That is plain stupid and pathetic.

Whether one is a Muslim, Christian, Jew, or follows no religion, we all have one common goal, “Peace,” Let us all stand united regardless of color, faith, belief, gender, and etc, and say NO to war and hate.

Please let us stop the hate, but come together with kindness and unity for better and prosperous future!

Hands around earth, international friendship concept
Peace and Unity – Muslimah411.wordpress.com

How to deal with Riya and showoff in Islam? Part 1

Bismillah e rahmani raheem (In the name of Allah (swt) {God}, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)
Bismillah e rahmani raheem (In the name of Allah (swt) {God}, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)+

Assalam alaikum,

I got a question from one of our readers, while I did some research, I was surprised by such vast of information on this topic, which was very interesting. Before I go ahead, I would deeply like to thank that reader for this question, because of you, I got a chance to learn and teach to many other people In Sha’Allah.

Question: How to deal with Riya and showoff in Islam?

Since this is huge topic, I would like to discuss in depth and into parts.

Part 1: Riya

What is riya? Riya has many levels in Islam, but the broad definition could be considered as arrogance. Riya can come in many forms such as in our hearts, minds, verbal aspects, and actions.

Let us explore these aspects:

Hearts: When we win or do something and get praised, we often forget Allah (swt) helped us, and we believe that we achieved by ourselves. We not only forget our Creator, without His help we cannot achieve anything, but we also discredit our family members and our loved ones and leave them behind. We take all the credit and fame.

Minds: We tend to believe in ourselves after we achieve something. That’s “I tried” or “I did”, it becomes all about me, instead of Allah (swt). When we lose something or something goes bad, we say or blame Allah (swt) or family/friends, but never oneself.

Verbal Aspects: We start comparing ourselves to other people, especially people in Islamic history such as Caliphs, Sahabahs, Prophet (saw)’s wives, and Prophet (saw), and etc.

We should never compare ourselves with anyone, especially anyone from Prophet’s time or to Himself. Allah (swt) is the best in Knowledge, let Him be the judge. We can strive to be like them, but we can never be them or compare ourselves with them.

Actions: When hearts and minds become one thought, then automatically our actions follow that train of thought.

Hijab for Both Genders-

Assalam’alaikum,

Hijab for Both Genders, is the third installation to my Hijab parts. Please see Part 1 – Dressing Hijab for Women and Part 2 – Dressing Hijab for Men

In Part 1, we focused on women and in Part 2 the focus was on men, and respectively in the manner of dressing/clothing.

In today’s time, it is extremely emphasized Hijab in the manner of dressing, yet in our Qur’an, hijab is mentioned in the aspect of manners and dressing.

In this part, I would like to explore Hijab, in the perspective of manners, modesty/moderate, and lifestyle.

A believer or a Muslim behaves accordingly to the Qur’an and Muhammad (SAW)’s Hadiths. Also there is a reason for that. We know whatever Allah (swt) has commended us is for our own benefit (in this life and Hereafter) and the benefit of the society.

 Manners: 

  • Smile –  Smiling does not only bring calmness, but also is a sadaqa
  • Self Respect – If you respect yourself, your body, your mind, and your soul, you will automatically respect elders, youngers, and children.
  • Helping Hand – Our Prophet (saw) always helped in and outside the house. He (SAW) helped friends and strangers alike
  • Be Grateful – The whole domain belongs to Allah (swt) and He knows best for you and me, so whatever and whenever you are in life, be appreciative and thankful
  • Lower your voice – this goes for both genders. We have to watch our voice level, tone, and laugh.
  • Walk – Don’t walk hard or with pride. With hard walk, earth is in pain and with pride; the society and people around us are in pain.
  • Cleanliness/Hygiene- This is extremely important, physically and emotionally for oneself and the society
  • Gaze/Tongue – Both genders equally are fully responsible for his/her words and action, whether it is done by tongue, eyes, ears, feet, hands, and etc.

Modesty/Moderate: 

  • Self Respect – Dress accordingly
  • Health/Free Time –  We all love eating, watching movies, hanging out, listening to music (I am not going to lie, cause I do too love all that), but be moderate in that, since in today’s time it is challenging, yet we have to be careful of how we use our health and time. Keep track!
  • Religion/Worldly – We all have responsibilities. Remember that we are in this world for Allah (swt), so don’t become too busy in worldly affairs, take sometime for Him. Though that doesn’t mean that we become extreme in religious beliefs, we also have been told by Allah (swt) that we should enjoy our life as long as it is halal (permitted within the laws of Islam)
  • Waste – Don’t waste food, clothes, or yourself

Lifestyle:

  • Be Knowledgeable – Spread positive knowledge
  • Secrecy/Charity – When you do good deeds, keep that within you and Allah (swt) and trust Him. Don’t share or brag. Whatever you hear, keep it to yourself or if needed share with Allah (swt) only
  • Anger – Don’t become angry or frustrated easily. Remember you are in the specific situation, because Allah (swt) is testing you. Ask Him (swt) for help

Let us become a positive role model for our children and future of Islam. May Allah (swt) make each one of us success in this life and Hereafter. Aameen.

I Don’t Like Hijab – Am I Submitting to Allah (SWT)

Assalam alaikum,

I came across this video by Nouman Khan, an Islamic Scholar. He was discussing this question, “I don’t like hijab” quite in a very different perspective. I found it very interesting, since many clips and scholars discuss importance of Hijab or point fingers what hijabi sisters are doing wrong, and I find that accusations very disturbing.

We all are respectively trying our best in our lives to be good Muslimahs. It’s a daily challenge, but when people judge or point fingers, its very demotivating.

This short clip, makes hijabi and non hijabi think about hijab and Islam in a very different perspective

Role Model In Islam

Assalam’Alaikum ( السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته)

We all go through different stages of like as we grow older and eventually we change as well. 

As a child my super hero and role models were my parents. In teen years my role models change to TV and movie celebs, yet I never was satisfied. 

Now I realized why I never used to be satisfied, because in Islam there is no place for such role models. Celebrities and models take us very far from our deen Astagfirrullah (May Allah (SWT) ( الله سُبْحَانَهُ وتَعَالَى) forgive me). 

Our role models should be none other than Muhammed (SAW) (صلى الله عليه وسلم‎ ), his wives, and his Companions! 

Many of us are struggling with relationship, with our parents, spouses, children, & siblings on daily basis. I used to get angry really fast but Alhumdulillah ( الحمد لله) by doing hijab and researching and teaching myself Islam, I realized the importance of each relationship. 

It’s so easy to get upset and judge each other, so let’s help each other, (I do need your help!) whenever we are in sticky situation and before drawing a judgment call, yelling, and/or cussing, imagine what our role models (in my case Muhammed (SAW) (صلى الله عليه وسلم‎ )) would have done! 

Please make dua for me that I am able to handle the situation(s) more appropriately and maturely. Aameen. 

  

Part 2 — Dressing Hijab for Men

In my earlier posts, I had started the concept of Hijab is pretty huge, so in order for me to try to cover as much as possible, I would need to break into parts. In Part 1 — Dressing Hijab for Women, and in this Part 2 — Dressing Hijab, I would like to focus on men.

Many people and media, keep pointing hijab for women is oppressing (though there is no actual facts, besides minority women’s views), there is no mention at all on men and their hijab!

Hijab is NOT only for women, rather it is EQUALLY for both men and women.

Hijab for men:

  • Jubbas
Jubbas for men
Ankle-length garment, usually with long sleeves, and similar to a robe.
  • Galabiyyas
Galabiyas for men
Classic Islamic men’s wear
  • Modest Tops
descent tops men
For men, in Islam, must cover from the navel to the knee, private parts, and upper front/back body.
  • Kufis
Caps for men
In Islam, men too are highly advised to wear Kufis

Forbidden for men to wear:

  • Silk (100%)
  • Gold (fake or real)
  • Bracelets
  • Earrings
  • Anklets
  • Transparent clothes (tops/bottoms)
  • Any article of clothes/accessories that imitate women

First Hijabi Muslimah a Firefighter in USA

Ahlam Ahmed determined to become New York’s first female Muslim firefighter – The Express Tribune

http://tribune.com.pk/story/866889/ahlam-ahmed-determined-to-become-new-yorks-first-muslim-firefighter/

Subhana’Allah ( سبحان الله) please share this story with family and friends. Masha’Allah ( ماشاء الله) it’s very motivating for girls, especially hijabis and Muslimahs who feel they are limited when it comes to career choices and dreams. 

Islam has given, us, Muslimahs, equal opportunity to achieve our goals and dreams. Alhumdulillah ( الحمد لله). Let’s not forget that!!!

May Allah (SWT) ( الله سُبْحَانَهُ وتَعَالَى) help us all achieve our dreams and make a difference in this world and in our society for better and safe. Aameen

Hate of Islam – Lets Follow Sunnah

Bismillah e rahmani raheem (In the name of Allah (swt) {God}, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)
Bismillah e rahmani raheem (In the name of Allah (swt) {God}, Most Gracious, Most Merciful)

I would like to eventually get into details about our Beloved Prophet Muhammed (SAW) and his life, but right now I would like to discuss our duty as Muslims.

I have started seeing our Prophet (SAW) being abused, verbally and online. It is important not to become judgmental, but let’s use work together to educate those individuals in the best way.

Let’s first remind ourselves, that our Prophet (SAW), the single most perfect man in history, had the following done to him

  • People physically assaulted him.
  • People threw stones at him.
  • People threw dirty intestines on him whilst he was praying.
  • People threw their dirty garbage on him
  • People abused him
  • People killed his loved ones
  • People tried to give him poison in his food
  • They laughed at him, Mocked at him
  • They made fun of Him
  • He lost His two teeth in the Battle of Uhd

Has someone ever thrown stones at you? Have you ever had dirty garbage thrown over your head? Yet somehow our aggressive reactions would lead someone to believe as if someone has actually done this?

So what is our end goal? It’s obviously to reach Jannah and the way to do this is to try to follow the life of our Prophet (SAW) If we try to study him, act like him, perform the Sunnah then we have a good chance of achieving our goal.

When someone insults Islam or our Prophet (SAW), or Allah (SWT), of course we all get deeply hurt, but what I witnessed a few days ago, was perhaps worse. A barrage of abuse from Muslims to the offenders swearing and insulting back. Did our Prophet (SAW) act like this? Of course not, so by acting in this way are we really defending our faith or weakening it? I feel we are weakening it, we are showing just how weak we can be.

Did our Prophet (SAW) lose such control? Engage in such filthy language? We all know certain people hate unconditionally, and in this case, it was a group of young teenagers who were spouting such hate, but we also know, or should know that many non Muslims respect Islam, respect Muslims, but when they see us defending our faith in such a violent aggressive manner, what must they think?

Once when the Prophet (SAW) was being physically abused in Taif, he was bleeding from having stones thrown at him, Angel Jibraeel (AS) came to him and said, “the Angels of the Mountains can crush these ignorant people between the mountains, should you wish O Muhammad (SAW).”

Bleeding from head to toe and battered and exhausted, the Prophet (SAW) was faced with a choice; should he or should he not seek to destroy the people who had just humiliated him (SAW) by having their children chase him (SAW) out of town while throwing stones at him (SAW)? And for what crime? All he (SAW) had wanted to do was convey the message of the Oneness of Allah (swt) to His creation and seek benefit his own people.

However, although they hurt him, Prophet Muhammad (SAW) looked beyond his own wounds and forgave them, replying to the Angel of the mountains he said,
‘No, do not destroy them, for I hope that Allah (SWT0 will bring out of their offspring people who worship Him (SWT) alone without associating any partner with Him (SWT) in worship.
What a beautiful excellent response. Look at the humility. The control of anger and hurt!

The way you respond to insults has an impact on the actual image of Islam. So lose this anger, lose the bad language and become an advert/role model for Islam. Ignore the ignorant who hate unconditionally, if someone criticises Islam and you feel you can have an intelligent conversation with them, then do so politely, they will think so differently of you, even if they don’t agree, they will respect the way you have conducted yourself.

You will promote Islam much more effectively this way if you control yourself.
That’s real faith.

Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala says what means in the Quran,
“Hold to forgiveness; command what is right; but turn away from the ignorant”.

He subhanahu wa ta’ala also says what means,
“And when they hear vain talk, they turn away therefrom and say: ‘To us our deeds, and to you yours; peace be to you: we seek not the ignorant.’

Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said
“The strong is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who controls himself while in anger.”(Bukhari :: Book 8 :: Volume 73 :: Hadith 135)